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Process: Mediation is a voluntary process in which a Mediator,
a trained neutral third person, assists the parties in resolving
their conflicts and disputes.
- Supports non-adversarial methods for resolving conflicts
- Helps both parties understand the issues
- Develops creative solutions, geared to the specific needs of
each person
- Keeps control in the hands of the parties involved, rather than
with outside individuals, agencies & authorities
- Mediation is a less expensive, less prolonged, less traumatic,
and more effective method of reaching an equitable settlement
than the traditional adversarial process
Goal: The goal of Mediation is to reach an agreement acceptable
to all parties. The parties, not the Mediator, make all decisions.
No result is imposed on a disagreeing party. The Mediator helps
identify the issues, gather information and explore potential solutions.
Setting: Mediations are conducted in a safe, private setting.
Mediation is not therapy or counseling, it is conflict resolution
system.
In Mediation the parties will strive to work together
to develop a parenting plan (visitation) which will encourage
a good relationship for the children with both parents. The parties
can put together a parenting plan that meets the needs of all
the members of the family. A typical visitation court order is
likely to state that the non-residential parent shall have visitation
every other week-end and perhaps one evening during the week with
alternating holidays.
One of the important benefits to Mediation is a faster
resolution than a traditional litigation. This has a great benefit
to the children and parents, as it brings a resolution to their
lives, thus reducing the stress and anxiety brought by the unknown.
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